Mixed Feelings!!!

Why we all have mixed feelings?

This is not about my life story but a feeling which constantly knocks my mind. Why we are happy and sad. Why can’t we be happy all the time?

Why we all are crying for one or the other thing? Why we waste our time in collecting rubble and forget to see and collect the precious diamonds we have.

We forget to see our parents, kids, our relatives, our friends which makes our life complete but instead we fight, dad with his son on property, wife with husband & husband’s family, brother and brother on money.

Lovers who love each other at one time so deeply break that beautiful relationship after few months because of false ego, because of lack of understanding.
You try to be the most successful person in any field you choose but you can’t make just one person happy in your whole life, what an irony!!

No one is ready to sacrifice, sacrifice their expectations, their false ego, their negative thinking. We all betray each other, instead we all betray our inner self. We portray ourselves as being the kindest person on earth, always helpful, religious. But if we are good, then why we are sad, never satisfied.

When a mother carries a baby in her lap, at that time she is the luckiest women on this earth as she has been given the honour by GOD to enjoy this motherhood, there are many ladies in this world, who can not conceive. So a mother should always thank to God for his kind mercy on her.

When whole family is enjoying supper or an evening tea all together, they should really thank GOD, there are many families, who are so busy in this mundane world to enjoy each other’s company.

When a husband and a wife go for a walk after dinner, they should thank GOD for giving them such a good understanding.

Let’s change this old norm of being selfish, let’s start giving. Giving whatever we can. Smile, forgiveness, feeling of indebtedness, politeness, anything we have. I am sure we are good in one thing or the other. Let’s start sacrificing, little demanding but more giving.

First understand, people never hurt you, its only our expectations which get hurt, if they are not ready to understand you due to any reason, they are only massaging their ego, let them do it,, instead feel sorry for them and pray to GOD, for giving them good and positive thinking & understanding and thank to GOD for his kind mercy on you that still you have no bad feelings for this person. As long as you are satisfied in your mind, that you have not done anything wrong, then leave all worries.

After reading this, give a deep thought. Its not a philosophy but a honest effort, which I am trying. ‘Cause I really want to be happy all the time, and don’t want to nag for anything, though I do many times, but at least I can try.

You know, I am really satisfied after writing this, because I asked this question and I answered my own question. May be tomorrow, a new thought knocks my mind, mind, my MAGICAL MIND!!!

Wait and watch and TRY TRY again.
Be happy :o)
JG